At Aunt D’s during our Christmas visit, she did laps around
the kitchen/den singing. Laps and laps. No naps. I thought I was clear today at
the grocery when she got in the little car made onto the front of the shopping cart and
wanted to be buckled in. We didn’t even make it through the produce section.
She was all over the place somewhere between produce and health food. She had
long shed her little vest that matched my sweater at the Chinese restaurant,
and she was marching/stomping through the aisles of the grocery in blue princess dress, purple
microfiber boots, and black minky jacket. And singing. Singing as loud as she
could without yelling. She can really project. And singing about: everything.
Narrating her entire trip through the grocery. At one point: “Signs. There’s
lots of signs. Signs everywhere.” The next minute: “Mommy said to stop. Stop,
stop, stop.” And she was stomping those big purple boots to keep the beat. She
is like an extravert version of me on super steroids.
The whole time, I just tried to keep my
eyes focused straight ahead, not making eye contact as I followed behind the
ring leader. However, out of the corner of my eye, I could see people cracking
up and nodding their heads. Some admired her boots; some complimented her
princess dress; some just commented on her cuteness. Meanwhile, I’m thinking,
‘When do I intervene?’ ‘Is this healthy for her to be encouraged to be so…
theatrical?’ ‘What will become of her; she's 2 years old and already so--out there?’ ‘Do I nip it in the bud?’
She’s fearless and full of energy. I am carefully picking my battles.
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